You can only gloss over the problems for so long and then it gets too hard keeping up a show. You may be avoiding some hurts from the past and can't adequately address how they are impacting current relationships in your life. You know that these events have passed and nothing more can be done about them, yet they still haunt you. Now is an ideal time for you to start shedding negative baggage from the past. Your future is bright and there is no reason for you to allow the past to taint it.